They say it takes two to tango and you can’t clap if you only use one hand right? Unless, of course, you are some type of mutant one hand clapping, tango by myself kind of monster.  Maybe should start this in a church like manner. By a show of hands how many of you have ever fallen out with anyone? Better yet, have ever been mad at anyone? Okay, good, so that’s all of you. What did we do after that? At the very least that will vary however odds are that the majority plotted some sort of revenge on some level. There are very few people who won’t revenge, and it makes sense I mean an eye for an eye sounds fair (let alone the hazard of blind toothless people).

In fact sometimes we stew so much in this anger for days, weeks even months on end. It burns up inside us and fuels a hate so deep that every time you see that person you want to puke. It eats us up every single moment we think of it. Not only does it eat us up it consumes any chance of reconciliation there was between is and that person. The longer we are mad at a person odds are the harder it is to reconcile. I mean, we have all watched the movies where people have been mad at each other for so long that they have forgotten why they were mad in the first place but are still adamant when it comes to the topic of speaking to each other.

Eventually even the person who was on the wrong gets mad at the other person because they are mad at him and that creates a whole other level of controversy. Funy thing though is that whoever you ask they will claim it is the other person’s fault. Well I have news for you. It is as much your fault as it is theirs. It takes two to tango, one hand can’t clap. Fine the person who initiated the drama is arguable but when it comes down to it you fueled the matter as much as the guy who made you mad. Don’t give me that look, it’s true. Revenge and anger always needs a partner without which it would be nothing. Try not being mad at them for a while and see how it goes. I mean unless, of course you are some type of mutant one hand clapping revenge on myself type of monster.

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